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What a rollercoaster these past 18 months have been, particularly for our children! As we call time on school and lessons we might be tempted to heave a big sigh of relief and wish for a better September! I would urge you not to sit on your laurels in hopeful...

I want to talk boundaries. We haven't talked boundaries for a while. So let's talk boundaries. My question to you is this, do you have boundaries, what are they, and do you regularly review them? Setting boundaries not only safeguards our time, it is also a form of...

What does a television program about building homes have in common with raising happy, resilient, confident children? Scaffolding!! I like to use the scaffolding analogy to explain our role as parents in raising confident, resilient children and was delighted when I...

I can already imagine the eye rolling, and your irritation with the oxygen mask analogy - so I promise not to go there. All I ask is you bear with me and read on, you'll be glad you did. I have been banging the self-care drum for the past decade and during this time...

I have an addictive personality. There I've said it. I am an all or nothing person who struggles to operate in the grey space in between. I am either 'on' or I am 'off' and finding the balanced middle ground is super hard for me and never more so than during the past...

"How can I help my child be more confident? They are constantly putting themselves down and I just don't know what to do". This is the question I get asked more than any other - the second most common is "how can I help my child manage their emotions, which in a lot...

I love New Years Eve; it is quite genuinely my most favourite day of the year. For me it's all about reflecting on the year which has been and looking optimistically forward to the year ahead. It really doesn't get any better than that!! You see I am a planner, a...

Guilt is a strange beast.  I see it frequently in my counselling room, and recognise it in my own personal makeup but parental guilt is capable of escalating to another level.   We all recognise that guilty feeling, we have all shared that sense that we should have...

I've been running online children's workshops for the first time this past week on key topics parents often tell me their children struggle with; confidence building, coping tools for anxiety, and managing emotions.  Whilst I had no doubts I would be able to give the...