We have all heard a variation of one of these comments from our children – “I am not very good at… ‘this is rubbish’, ‘I can’t’, I’m not good at…’ but what does it mean?? There are potentially 6 different reasons why and yet, it is doesn’t really matter which reason it is – the comments tell us something about how they are experiencing things right now AND how to help them.
I will talk you through my 6-point solution – what to do and how to solve the issue longer term.
Here are the highlights:
(00:33) From low confidence to attention-seeking – what does it mean?
(04:02) Children are insanely present
(07:06) We have two ears and only one mouth
(10:38) Acknowledging how our children feel
(15:46) Failure is a part of life
(19:46) We need to get real and be honest with our kids
(23:02) Silencing the inner critic
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